You expect people to know percentages? I mean, am I supposed to look at my own relationships and report the times I was true, or for both parties?

And what does general mean?

I've always wanted to, but have never had a chance to. Things just haven't happened in a way that I really got to do it. I'm more than willing to do so though. I just hope I can get enough alone time with my S.O. to do so with her.

Never cheated on my wife.


As for lady diving I would never discuss my RL oral sex shenanigans on Plime or any other public forum.

There's a little thing called dignity and privacy

I think it is too late, what has been seen can not be unseen. The boobs in question will be always between them.

Is this during the relationship or during the marriage?

Oh and please define cheating.
For example far more people access porn site at least once in their life than cheat, but some people consider watching porn cheating. So are we talking about the broad or the narrow category?


Here is a statistics page about this issue:
infidelity statistics

Between but no longer ogled, then. :D

Really, boys, they're just boobs. Maybe they're STELLAR boobs. I'll grant they can be entertaining. But just recognize that there's a time and place, and just as SHOWING breasts at work isn't always appropriate, neither is leering at them. Two way street, wrongs and rights, etc. And yes, you will be noticed. Same for playing pocket pool. We see, we judge you for it.

Lets suppose you are with your partner 15 years long. You find some evidence that your partner was cheating on you about 10 years ago, but the affair ended rather quickly too. Do you mention it to your partner, do you take offence, do you divorce?

I don't think I would care much about what happened 10 years ago, but since I did not have to face this kind of dilemma yet I might get surprised by my own reaction, as it already happened a few times in the past. (I did not care about things I thought I would or things had much higher effect on me than what I expected.)

here's my guesses ... (i'm a gal, so i may be off.)

he's intimidated. he's very familiar with his penis, and he knows how it gets pleasured. he's unfamiliar with the vulva, and wouldn't know where to begin. men don't like to be told what to do by women, so he wouldn't listen to you telling him how to work it, so he'll settle for not trying at all. they do it, because they get away with it all the time. they'll still get pleasured, so why bother with yours?

he's selfish. he wants to be receiving pleasure all the time, and waste no time not getting pleasure. if it doesn't directly involve his penis, then why bother? waste of time. you should only be betting pleasured by his penis, anyways; being pleasured by anything else is not real pleasure.

(... ok, i'll admit, that was rather bitter. i learned that from my first, last, and only sexual relationship, and that has left me very angry, bitter, and aggressive towards men. i'd love to be proven wrong, but i'm afraid it's more likely i'd grow antlers first.)

No idea. Without a scientific poll, I'd say more women refuse to 'dive' than men (especially after commitment has been established).

It's something that only an open conversation can resolve.

Or perhaps take a bottle of the liquid Nesquik syrup into the bedroom and take turns sharing.

Date other men.

Some numbers (slightly old statistics): Public health and sex

Findings that are relevant:
So more men are willing then women, though just barely.
Also:
So maybe it's an age-group thing. More young men expect to get some without returning..but still just barely.

Date other men.

Just out of curiosity, where does that leave the other 3%? Are they in the de-virginating waiting room?

The other side of "15% had anal sex with a female."

Statistical overlap. Some of the 66% may have also had anal sex. Only the 22% is an exclusive category.

Since you aren't likely to get volunteers, this article has some answers for you.

In general, cheating happens in 80% of marriages, says that.

um...yea?

um...yea?

Geez, I'm not writing a report, just asking for everyone's personal guess/opinion. Doesnt have to reflect YOUR relationship or morals, but how you think the rest of the population is acting.

Cheating defined as touching someone other than your SO in a sexual manor.

I bet a sexual manor would be a neat place. A manor house of sex? Cool!

...(You meant sexual manner).

I disagree. I've encountered many scuzzy ho's high-maintenance broads ....... ladies... who want their body judged. Not just by men, but by other women as well. Women can be such territorial b***hes.

I really doubt a girl who goes out and about wearing a skirt that just barely covers her yahoo coupled with a tube sock used as a tube top wants people to find her personality attractive. She wants people to see her assets and act accordingly.

GDI where was this girl when I was bar hopping in college?

In that case I cheat a lot. I touch myself sexually all the time.